What is the best way to make a breakup as painfree possible?

No matter how difficult it sounds.... I am telling you: The easiest way to break up with someone is to be completely and totally honest. You really just have to tell him/her everything you feel--let out all your doubts and the reasons why you want out of the relationship. BELIEVE ME... anything that seems cruel now turns out best in the end *IF* you tell the truth. You have to be honest. Each and every one of my friends who ever tried making breaking up easier by telling a lie made things really, *really* ****** up in the end.